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ABOUT HER MOOD MENTOR

Meet Your PMDD Nutritionist & Coach

Hi, I'm Jes—The PMDD practitioner you've been searching for

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My Story:

From 17 Years of Hopelessness to Helping Thousands of Women H.E.A.L.

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PUBERTY - 2017
Puberty - 2017
2017
2017
2017 - 2018
2017 - 2018
2018
2018
2018 - PRESENT
2018 - Present
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STAGE 1 (Age 13-30):

The Dark Ages

It started with my grandmother saying, "Now I know why you've been so mean to your brother." What should have been a celebration became 17 years of monthly hopelessness.

Every cycle, I would crumble into a pile on my bed, crying as if someone had died. The rage and despair didn't match anything happening in my life, but it was my grandmother and mother who connected it to my cycle.. But


The Misdiagnosis Spiral:

  • Age 14: Put on birth control for severe PMS symptoms
  • Age 17: Misdiagnosed with bipolar, given antipsychotics
  • Lost friends, quit the dance team, couldn't finish high school full-time
  • Moved 9 times in one year trying to escape myself
  • Left destruction everywhere I went—relationships, jobs, lost dreams


"When our emotions are high, our intelligence is low.”
Despite my mother taking me to gynecologest starting at age 14 yet I couldn't grasp the connection to my cycle each month as it consumed me. 

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STAGE 2:

Rock Bottom

At 27, I made one last attempt. I went to my gynecologist crying: "I have really bad PMS. I'm going to ruin this relationship. Please help me."


Again she offered birth control and SSRIs and out of desperation, I took them. 


Within three months, I systematically destroyed every good thing in my life:

  • Lost the relationship I went on it to protect
  • Lost my housing
  • Lost my job
  • Lost my best friend
  • Lost hope


Instead of 14 bad days, I was now symptomatic for the entire month. I was drowning. I had two choices: End it here, or find another way forward.


"I drew a line in the sand. This was not living, and I would not continue this way."

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STAGE 3:

The Lightbulb Moment

PMDD had been added to the DSM in 2013, but somehow no doctor had mentioned it in my 17 years of seeking help.

Finally, A Name for My Pain.

When I discovered what PMDD was, everything clicked. If this was hormonal, maybe there were other ways to heal beyond the medications that actually made my symptoms SOO much worse.

Shifting from conventional to functional medicine approaches I:

  • Started learning about the four phases of my cycle
  • Discovered integrative menstrual health protocols
  • Followed the period revolution happening in women's health in 2017
  • Began implementing root-cause protocols


"If this was a hormonal mood disorder, maybe there were other ways to heal beyond just taking medications?"

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STAGE 4:

Reframing Rock Bottom as My Trampoline

My First Symptom-Free Cycle in 17 Years


Three months. That's all it took using integrative approaches.


When my period came without warning—no rage, no despair, no self-destruction—I just sat there in shock.


My period just... came.


The Revelation: "This is how people my age are married, have doctorate degrees, own homes. Their periods just come and their whole lives don't fall apart for two weeks."


In that moment, I knew this would become my life's purpose. If I could help even one person avoid 17 years of suffering, everything I'd been through would be worth it.


"Your trauma can become your teacher. Your wound can become your wisdom."

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STAGE 5:

Turning My Pain Into My Purpose

Building the Foundation to Help Others + the life I’ve reclaimed


My partner (now husband) encouraged me to get the credentials to do more than peer support. I was determined to have real impact.


The Journey:

  • Marriage to the man who witnessed and supported my transformation
  • Home ownership with my own garden
  • Stable, meaningful work aligned with my purpose
  • Trust in myself and my body
  • The ability to pursue and achieve dreams


"I couldn't have the impact I wanted with just my story. I needed the tools and knowledge to truly help others transform their lives."

Start Your H.E.A.L.ing  Journey

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Built on lived experience and backed by evidence-based education in functional nutrition, hormone health, and PMDD-specific therapeutic approaches.

  • NTP - Nutritional Therapy Practitioner (2024)

  • NBC-HWC - National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach (2023)

  • FBCA - Functional Blood Chemistry Analysis (2024)

  • Integrative Women’s Health Institute| Perimenopause and Menopause Certification- | (2024)

  • IAPMD Professional Community Member

  • Fertility Education & Medical Management + teenFEMM Certification- 2021

  • University of Arizona Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine | 2020 

  • IAPMD Professional Peer Support Provider (2019)

  • Bachelor's Degree - Anthropology from Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam & MSU 2012

The Team Who Makes Our Mission Possible

Our mission is clear: We empower ambitious women to transform their PMDD journey from struggle to strength, turning symptoms into stepping stones toward the life they're meant to live.

Every team member plays a vital role in ensuring ambitious women get the support, education, and inspiration they need to transform their relationship with PMDD and reclaim their lives.

Jess
NTP, NBHWC, BCHN, CEO
+ Lead Practitioner/Coach
Jes created Her Mood Mentor from her own healing journey with PMDD and a deep passion for helping other women feel less alone. She combines personal experience with professional training to support women in finding real answers, real relief, and real hope.
Shawn
Tech Guru & Podcast Manager
My husband and the motivator and visionary behind this mission + our technical backbone. His unwavering belief in me and this work provides the foundation that keeps everything running, especially when PMDD symptoms try to derail our progress.
Tink, Pimm & Athena
The Moral Support Squad
The cat who saved my life in 2017, the poodle who turned me dog person, and our malamute-husky mix who helps me keep work-life balance in check. They ensure daily outdoor adventures, provide comfort during mood swings, and offer silent solidarity when keyboard warrior trolls invade our inbox. Sometimes the best therapy has four legs and unconditional love.
Irene
SEO Specialist
Ensures that when women desperately search for PMDD answers at 2am, they find our life-changing resources instead of another dead end. She amplifies our message through strategic content that actually helps.
Janine
FNTP, AIP, CGP, RHP, BCHN
Clinical Program Coordinator
Works closely with our practitioner to support lab interpretation, client communication workflows, and program development. Plays a key role in coordinating educational content and internal projects that enhance client care and program delivery.
Taylor
Graphic Designer
Creates compelling graphic design content that reaches ambitious women where they are, helping them see that healing is possible. Her designs turn complex PMDD concepts into accessible, shareable inspiration.
Izzy
Client Onboarding Specialist
Meets with women seeking PMDD support and guides them toward their right next step with compassion and clarity. She ensures every woman feels truly heard during their most vulnerable moments, matching them with the exact care they need to begin their healing journey.
Maria
Head of Operations
Leads operational strategy, systems, and team workflows while supporting client case organization and program development to ensure practitioner-led care is delivered smoothly and consistently.
Mom & Dad
Foundational Support Team
Survived 17 years of undiagnosed and misdiagnosed PMDD alongside me, providing the love and stability that made healing possible. They continue to guide business decisions and offer encouragement during luteal phase moments when giving up feels easier than continuing this meaningful work.

Together, we're building a world where no woman has to suffer in silence with PMDD—where symptoms become messages, and healing becomes the path to actualizing your biggest dreams.

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