01  ·  MEET CARRIE

Twenty Years of Believing She Was Broken

Carrie is a licensed counsellor, mum, & business owner. She first noticed the pattern between ages 16 & 18. A therapist had pointed out the emotional cycle before she had a name for it. But knowing the pattern & changing it are different things. Twenty years passed between recognising something was wrong & actually getting it under control.

She helped other people through their hardest moments for a living. All while silently white-knuckling her own.

"I spent so long thinking something was fundamentally wrong with me."

- CARRIE · INTAKE

02  ·  LIFE BEFORE HMM

Three Weeks Out of Every Month

Carrie came in with a symptom burden score of 444. Three weeks a month. Moderate to severe. Her work. Her marriage. Her parenting. All of it was being eaten by symptoms she'd been told to manage, not resolve.

What she was dealing with:

• Rage
• Anxiety symptoms, crippling at the worst points
• Hopelessness & despair
• Recurring thoughts of self-harm each cycle
• Extreme irritability
• Emotional overwhelm

She was masking at work to appear functional. Straining her marriage with emotional unpredictability. Feeling like an unreliable parent. Her income was affected. And underneath all of it was a bone-deep belief that something was fundamentally broken inside her.

It wasn't.

03  ·  WHAT SHE'D ALREADY TRIED

Years of Effort That Didn't Get to the Root

Carrie was not someone who hadn't tried. She'd tried everything she'd been offered.

• SSRIs

• Birth control

• Therapy & coping skills

• Lifestyle changes & exercise

• Masking symptoms to survive daily life

Side effects were real: spotting, dizziness, emotional instability. Some interventions helped her cope. None of them addressed why her symptoms existed in the first place. She was living around PMDD, not changing it.

04  ·  THE TURNING POINT

Christmas 2024

After Christmas 2024, Carrie & her husband talked about expanding their family. He told her he didn't think their marriage, or her health, could handle another pregnancy because of her PMDD.

That moment broke something open in her.

Desperate for real answers, she went looking for a podcast & found a conversation about PMDD & neurodivergence. It was the first time she felt fully seen. That conversation led her to Her Mood Mentor.

05  ·  THE ROOT-CAUSE APPROACH

Built Around What Her Body Was Actually Doing

We built Carrie's plan around root causes. Not just symptom relief.

• Detailed symptom mapping & cycle tracking

• Nutrition optimisation & targeted protein intake

• Supporting dopamine & estrogen patterns

• Nervous system regulation

• ADHD-informed adaptations

• Addressing nutrient status gaps

06  ·  EARLY WINS

Fast. And Real.

Rage reduced. Anxiety symptoms dropped significantly. Recurring thoughts of self-harm stopped. Skin improved. She started being able to compartmentalise emotions instead of being swept under by them. Her cycles became predictable through tracking. That gave her something she hadn't felt in years: control.

"My whole relationship with my symptoms changed."

- CARRIE

07  ·  THE RESULTS

The Numbers

"I cannot believe I'm having symptom-free cycles without medication."

- CARRIE

• SYMPTOM BURDEN
• 444 → 221
• 50% drop (−223 points)

• QUALITY OF LIFE
• 38/70 → 55/70
• +17 points · 45% gain

• SYMPTOM DAYS/CYCLE
• ~21 → ~13
• 8 days back every month

• RAGE
• Before: Severe
• After: Mild or none

• ANXIETY SYMPTOMS
• Before: Debilitating
• After: Manageable & calm

• THOUGHTS OF SELF-HARM
• Before: Monthly
• After: Gone

• IRRITABILITY
• Before: Extreme
• After: Low

• EMOTIONAL OVERWHELM
• Before: Constant
• After: Manageable

• HOPELESSNESS
• Before: Present most cycles
• After: Rare

• ADHD SYMPTOMS
• Before: Amplified
• After: Eased

08  ·  HOW HER LIFE CHANGED

A Home That Feels Different Now

Carrie has a stable mood baseline for the first time in her adult life. Her cycles are predictable. She can plan. And follow through.

Her marriage is healthier. The catastrophic thinking that used to hijack her communication with her husband is gone. Her home has a different atmosphere.

She's a more present, patient parent. Her kids aren't watching her disappear & come back every month.

And the thing she'd quietly given up on, expanding her family, is back on the table.

"Our house has a happier energy."

- CARRIE

09  ·  CARRIE'S MESSAGE

For Every Woman Who's Been Told She's Too Much

Carrie spent 20 years believing PMDD was a character flaw. A sign she wasn't built right. It wasn't. Her body was running on empty & sending loud signals. When she gave it what it actually needed, everything shifted.

"There is nothing fundamentally wrong with you. You're not broken. Don't give up. Even if you feel like you have nothing left, try this — there are more options than you've been told."

- CARRIE

"Feeling miserable every month is also work. Choose the work that gives you your life back."

- CARRIE

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Results vary. This case study reflects one individual's experience & is not a guarantee of outcomes. Her Mood Mentor does not provide medical advice. Always consult with your healthcare provider about treatment decisions.